Well then, here's a solution that might help.
Step 1: Invite your friends ogre to arrive the next day.
Step 2: Spend time doing anything when they arrive, ranging from just sitting to playing hardcore video games.
Step 3: Make then feel at home, and use their personalities as clues to what'll make them feel the most confident in themselves.
Step 4: After the night is ogre, ask why they didn't invite you.
Step 5: Have them say you didn't deserve to come.
Step 6: Think about recent events and how they reacted to your question.
Step 7: Pull both of them in saying it's ok.
Step 8: Once they're close enough and feel safe, tear their heads from their spines and place them on pikes in the front yard to let others know you are fucking DEDICATED to Shrek.